-
Unrealistic Friendspecations
As a single, 30-something who was living in New York until a short time ago, I relate to the beloved TV show, Friends, on so many levels. Too many to count. There is no show that means so much to me and has influenced my life the way Friends has (with Seinfeld coming in at…
-
33
There are only 6 Mondays till Christmas. 6 Mondays! Are you kidding me? I feel like I just left New York yesterday. But no, that was back in July. And I feel like I just turned 32, but no…that was last December. Which means my birthday is fast approaching. And that also means I’ll be…
birthdays, blogging, debt, expectations, God’s plan, kids, life, love, marriage, mystery, turning 33 -
Girls Do THIS, not THAT
Lately, H (9 year old girl twin) has been struggling with what it means to be a girl. Traditional gender roles don’t appeal to her. She doesn’t like pink. She rarely wears dresses. She loves to skateboard and she has the trendiest short hair cut that’s ever graced a 9 year old’s head. She could easily…
-
Settling Down or Just Plain Settling
If I asked you to describe the perfect man, what would you say, ladies? Or men, what about the perfect woman? My checklist looks a little like this… Click Here. And the funny thing is we tell ourselves we have “high standards” and that settling is bad. Our loved ones tell us never to “settle…
-
Great Expectations
When a woman hits a certain age range, there are expectations that come along with it. Not only from culture but from friends and family. It used to make me mad, jaded, resentful and feel like I wasn’t enough. Yes, I’m over 30 and no, I’m not married. And sometimes that baffles people. They think…
-
The Indefinable, Wonderfully Made Me!
It’s fair to say that back in high school and even in college, I did not know myself very well. When I was little I was the outgoing one. Always in the middle of whatever was happening. The center of the spotlight. In middle school I learned that not everyone valued the ability to…